> I'm wondering where the rest of the community was when this harassment was going on at the bar. The victim says they were there in a group. So a whole group o

> I'm wondering where the rest of the community was when this harassment was going on at the bar. The victim says they were there in a group. So a whole group of conference attendees was just standing around, letting this victim be harassed? From the post this read like a really uncomfortable /inappropriate conversation between two people, not a violent + public confrontation. What do you expect other bar patrons to do? Listen in and chase the guy out of the bar because he made inappropriate advances? Do I need to point out that this behavior is fairly common in bars? Look, not questioning that what the guy did was inappropriate but I think this expectation on the rest of the community is not reasonable.