> it's almost like being an achiever is something to be ashamed of this is definitely a thing. I know people that when a child does something great whether it'

> it's almost like being an achiever is something to be ashamed of this is definitely a thing. I know people that when a child does something great whether it's academics or sports or something else it's hushed away like "what will the neighbors think?". I can't get my head around it.