This is 10 hours later. > Therein lies the crux of the issue. Everyone agrees that this person needs help, but also agrees that they shouldn't feel obligated t

This is 10 hours later. > Therein lies the crux of the issue. Everyone agrees that this person needs help, but also agrees that they shouldn't feel obligated to provide it. This sentence will definitely seem targeted at you. However both the following are true: 1) You are not their keeper 2) Therein lies the crux of the issue I would say your anecdote did its task brilliantly, it described a situation fairly, which presented reasonable expectations humans can have today. The pros/cons of this current accommodation were then discovered.