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> "He's abrupt," or "He's arrogant," ... "angry bastard." It sounds like those are totally fixable personality defects, yet here you are acting persecuted and
by corinroyal 2y ago
> "He's abrupt," or "He's arrogant," ... "angry bastard."
It sounds like those are totally fixable personality defects, yet here you are acting persecuted and making excuses. What if you didn't blame other people and instead took responsibility for your own off-putting behavior?
I've worked with too many men who think they're too special to follow social etiquette, when they are actually just garden-variety jerks who use their nerd identity as a get out of jail free card.
- intended 2y agoWhy did you write that? You come across as insensitive, and likely someone who hasn't put the effort to understand the comment and the context. It's far too easy to conclude that you aren't heeding your own advice. Was this some next level attempt to show what being a bully magnet looks like? I don't understand.
- corinroyal 2y agoIs it bullying to suggest that a person take responsibility for their own lack of courtesy?
- Nasrudith 2y agoReread the initial message. You missed the point completely in your rush to cheerlead bullying.