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It reminds me a bit about my family, but maybe in a different way. We were allowed to challenge everything (even though, my parents had final say). But what I
by juancn 2y ago
It reminds me a bit about my family, but maybe in a different way. We were allowed to challenge everything (even though, my parents had final say).
But what I think was great about my parents was that we were encouraged to find out the answers to any questions we had.
It was pre-internet time, so it basically was looking something up on a dictionary or on the Encyclopedia Brittanica (a Spanish language version my parents still have today), many times it was rather hard to figure something out.
No question left unanswered, at least as best as we could.
Even if it meant that my dad went out and bought me a book about basic electricity (Ohms law and such) just to give to me because I wanted to know something.
That care about knowledge and logic (my mom was great at logical arguments and she knows a lot of crap, seriously) helped me succeed.
I hope I'm doing as good a job with my kids (ideally even better).
Raising people is weird and can be so fulfilling.
- dmix 2y agoYou were a very lucky kid to grow up in such an environment. It was probably easier raising an inquisitive kid in such an environment when you would refer to books and issues of the day, I'd imagine myself today going down internet rabbitholes and thinking myself an expert on a new thing every week. Which would probably often resort to the parent's exhaustion and just resorting to "that's great, son".
- dclowd9901 2y agoThis is exactly how we raise our kids so I’m glad to hear that (someday!) they’ll appreciate it.