"is EVER that interesting a question." Agree and it feeds into the idea that you need to have some grand plan in your mind at all times. When you read stories

"is EVER that interesting a question." Agree and it feeds into the idea that you need to have some grand plan in your mind at all times. When you read stories about people in the news they are always presented as very clearly being "a" or "b". "He always knew he wanted to be President" or "He wanted to be a ball player but ended up being President". Anyway the question can in some cases even be annoying and make you feel defensive. I dated a girl once who insisted on knowing what it was I liked about a particular dish. Why is it important why I like pizza? I just like pizza. Think a minute (if you are a straight guy) about why you like tits. Go ahead. Not sure about you but I can't answer that question. I just like the way they look. Is that an adequate answer? It triggers some thing in me that makes me feel good. I think it's easier many times to describe what you don't like, than what you like. I like air conditioning because high humidity makes me feel yucky. So air conditioning helps me avoid a negative feeling. I think the key is like you detailed. In the specificity of the question.