An excellent book about this topic, which also gives some suggestions on how the majority and minority should actually conduct themselves to make sure this happ

An excellent book about this topic, which also gives some suggestions on how the majority and minority should actually conduct themselves to make sure this happens, is Danielle Allen's Talking with Strangers. http://press.uchicago.edu/Misc/Chicago/014665in.html http://press.uchicago.edu/Misc/Chicago/014665in.html