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Can't speak for GP, but I have similar feelings... some things are dramatically harder, others easier... for the most part I just develop coping mechanisms for
by tracker1 2y ago
Can't speak for GP, but I have similar feelings... some things are dramatically harder, others easier... for the most part I just develop coping mechanisms for as much as I can and try to accept other pieces. Not a matter of self-hatred or celebration so much. Though I have dealt with a lot of depression in my life from a general difficulty in interaction.
One can reason their way through a lot of things, even a lot of the why's of emotion over time. To recognize when you are going into a state of reacting on emotion over reason. It's hard.
My daughter faces a lot of similar issues and it's harder for her than it was for me. The best I can do is try to instill a sense of drive to adapt and overcome as opposed to just giving up and/or wallowing in things. I wish my parents were better equipped to do this for me. I was close to 40 before a lot of things started to fit together. A few years ago, working with someone that had similar personality issues dialed to 11 so to speak that a lot of things became much more clear.