- there is friction for an employee with established systems for dealing with childcare/k-12 school to potentially have to start all over again figuring out tho

- there is friction for an employee with established systems for dealing with childcare/k-12 school to potentially have to start all over again figuring out those systems. You could subsume all of these points into "moving house is hard", but the details matter. We moved across the country for a job for the money and even with an empty nest it was dauntingly difficult, the hardest thing we have ever done over 4 decades, and we didn't have to worry about money!