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What to do when you're feeling upset about being disliked

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• incomingpain 2y ago
  >Being disliked is, ultimately, tolerable – and perhaps even healthy, in a way. Yesterday I had a lady cross the road to avoid being near me; immediately returned to my side once past. Which is more then the usual head down and never say a word to me. Few days ago I was out for groceries, I saw a kid inside the basket(safety concern stickers be damned), all I did was smile. Mother urgently rushed out of the aisle. When I got to the next aisle, she looked me right in the eyes, turned around and went to the next aisle. I finished up shopping, at the end I go through the clothes area, I was looking at panties. Usually nobody over there, plus self-checkout. But this lady comes by, sees me and told me im disgusting. About a week ago, I was walking the bike path near my house. The path is wide enough for 3-4 bikes wide. I was right most edge, lady didnt need to but she decided to walk onto the grass to avoid me. It was much muddier then she expected, nearly slipped and fell. Mud all over her shoes. She looked at me like I did it to her. Been a busy month, usually only get about 1 of these stories a month. >Because if everyone you ever met liked you, that might indicate that you are hiding what you really think, have a lack of boundaries, or never stand up for yourself. I kind of have the opposite problem, everyone tends to hate me. Last month's, I was out shopping, blocking my side of the aisle and lady wanted something from where i was blocking with my cart. Im fast, so I noticed and was about to leave and she lifts her pinky finger up and says "tiny dick man needs to feel strong" which was out of place, I hadnt done anything. I replied, "I'm trans, I don't have a dick." She replied, "You're not a real man." So now you understand why I tend to get hated on.