The real step 1 is not trying to be good at anything and just doing it for the enjoyment Attachment to outcome is very real and hold a lot of people back For

The real step 1 is not trying to be good at anything and just doing it for the enjoyment Attachment to outcome is very real and hold a lot of people back For example I started getting really good at chess when I stopped caring how many rating points I lost or won today and completely forgot about ratings altogether