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Step 1 is to realize you're almost certainly not going to be the best in all of spacetime at a thing. Step 2 is to realize you don't have to be - you can just
by hiAndrewQuinn 2y ago
Step 1 is to realize you're almost certainly not going to be the best in all of spacetime at a thing.
Step 2 is to realize you don't have to be - you can just be the best in a given bubble, centered on the here and now.
Step 3 is getting comfortable realizing you get to choose the size of that bubble, any time you want!
- timacles 2y agoThe real step 1 is not trying to be good at anything and just doing it for the enjoyment Attachment to outcome is very real and hold a lot of people back For example I started getting really good at chess when I stopped caring how many rating points I lost or won today and completely forgot about ratings altogether