I don't disagree with you. Behavior is complex. But, keep in mind that pro-social behavior is genetic behavior. Humans are Apes, but we're a special kind of Ape

I don't disagree with you. Behavior is complex. But, keep in mind that pro-social behavior is genetic behavior. Humans are Apes, but we're a special kind of Ape that has a large PFC that evolved partly to attune us to complex social coordination. Except when we're under stress, have cognitive load, in adverse environments, have developmental disorders, Human's tend toward pro-social behavior, overriding Ape-like behavior. (Also, it's interesting to note that some research suggests that parenting has a low (10-20%) influence on a child's behavior.) Also, yes, there are general genetic differences between males and females, but we've also determined pretty clearly at this point that there's enough variance at the individual level where generalizations don't work. For instance, I have a niece who was born much larger, stronger, and more aggressive than the other kids. She was always interested in "boy stuff". She even looked more boy-like. It's not helpful when people tell us "boys should be boys. girls should be girls".