> It's odd there aren't more people questioning this. I’ve been questioning this for a long time. It’s not an enviable position: it’s isolating (very few peopl

> It's odd there aren't more people questioning this. I’ve been questioning this for a long time. It’s not an enviable position: it’s isolating (very few people understand), it’s very hard to keep any kind of salaried position (since you’re not a devoted doormat), and it’s mentally challenging because you can’t ever really feel safe nor fit in.