Yeah we have to very carefully recognise when advice does and doesn't apply to us. I absolutely do not need the advice of half assing anyting. It takes a lot fo

Yeah we have to very carefully recognise when advice does and doesn't apply to us. I absolutely do not need the advice of half assing anyting. It takes a lot for me to whole-ass things and I have to think of strategies as to how to get into that state sustainably. And I agree its more about not focusing and having a strong emotional reaction to difficulty and failure, not about being a perfectionist. I'm not sure I like the way that people talk about procrastinators being perfectionists. You can't be a perfectionist if you never even get to the stage of perfecting something. It always feels like a way to make us feel better about ourselves undeservedly.