This is twofold I think. If having had a deep connection happened because you are in general someone easily capable of deep connection, it would be indeed easi

This is twofold I think. If having had a deep connection happened because you are in general someone easily capable of deep connection, it would be indeed easier to connect deeply again. But if having a deep connection happened despite you not being such a person, but, e.g., because the person you lost had an equally rare disposition as you, or you lived through special circumstances that bonded you more deeply, it's probably harder to replicate this.