Sure there are trade offs, and your position is understandable. Self reliance and freedom are important but I don't see the value in not being able to call for

Sure there are trade offs, and your position is understandable. Self reliance and freedom are important but I don't see the value in not being able to call for help when help is needed. As a parent you can still make the decision to not pick your child up if they are tired and want to be picked up.