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Or - A big part of parenting is building trust with your child to do what is expected of them, and dealing with it when they stray.
by roydivision 2y ago
Or - A big part of parenting is building trust with your child to do what is expected of them, and dealing with it when they stray.
- wiz21c 2y agoOr - A bi gpart of parenting is making sure the kids understand why they have to go to school and how lucky they are to be able to. (but I 100% agree with you, trust is not achieved with panopticon control)
- roydivision 2y ago> trust is not achieved with panopticon control Indeed, it is actually eroded.
- bryanrasmussen 2y ago>dealing with it when they stray. I know we're not supposed to assume reading comprehension problems here, so I just have to assume that your dealing with it when they stray does not have any component of monitoring in it? Because I said "or monitoring more closely a child that has done improper things." and everyone seems to think that you shouldn't monitor someone that has done improper things - I really don't get it? Seems like apathy, oh your kid is sneaking out with other kids to drink, well give them a talking to and then whatever you do, don't monitor them! Oh your kid got a sugar daddy on Roblox, hmm, well go talk to the neighbors next door, the 1980s neighbor network was the best way to ever keep track of your kids for every kid that didn't grow up in the 1980s. Half of the commentators here seem to think I'm living in the 80s, and the other half seem to think I'm living in Kansas, but everyone is in agreement on one thing which is that I should definitely behave myself to their model of raising kids in 1980s Kansas.