Perhaps a more familiar wording might be, "it's not getting what you want, it's wanting what you've got". > Basically they are fantasies that reality is less u

Perhaps a more familiar wording might be, "it's not getting what you want, it's wanting what you've got". > Basically they are fantasies that reality is less unfair/arbitrary and imaginings that happiness is attainable by everyone in every situation. No. They are guidance on making the best of an arbitrary reality.