No I havent read that but probably have read very similar things. Its very easy to say these things so I never put much weight to them. I am just going off my

No I havent read that but probably have read very similar things. Its very easy to say these things so I never put much weight to them. I am just going off my own experiences. What you might consider virtuous like helping others may lead down to lonliness and feelings of uselesness when circumstances change and theres no one around. If you work on being independent you may one day find you have a longing to connect. When being carefree seems to make you happy, one day it may lead to making terrible decisions. The human brain, and all of life seems to be built on opposites, I don't believe eternal happiness can exist, at least not for everyone.