> People seem like they don't exist anymore except on the terms and expectations already laid out by other people Hasn't this always been true? think what's ch

> People seem like they don't exist anymore except on the terms and expectations already laid out by other people Hasn't this always been true? think what's changed is the labels and identities being selected between, rather than the actual underlying dynamics. We are social animals, so it seems sort of natural that we'd devote a lot of mental effort to understanding ourselves in the context of other people.