It gets unenthusiastic reactions because for someone to effectively communicate they need to figure out broadly who you are. By pointing out the obvious you are

It gets unenthusiastic reactions because for someone to effectively communicate they need to figure out broadly who you are. By pointing out the obvious you are refusing to give up any information about yourself. It's nearly as bad as saying "I don't want you talking to me". >you'd think everyone would agree with this label "We identify with the same label" isn't the important part. What is important is that the other person can place you somewhere.