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I think it is helpful for people to find that what is wrong with them isn't a unique character flaw but a well-known problem, so they can feel less guilty and m
by ahartmetz 2y ago
I think it is helpful for people to find that what is wrong with them isn't a unique character flaw but a well-known problem, so they can feel less guilty and maybe find known ways to cope. But that is all.
What I don't like are things like using the label to reject responsibility for one's own actions because "all X are like that", being upfront about the label where it isn't necessary, glorifying the label ("X are good at Y"), and yes, forming an identity around the label. I guess it's kind of the zeitgeist what with identity politics and all that.
- nicbou 2y agoThat's exactly what it was for me. It's a lot easier to work on a problem when you know what it stems from, have a vocabulary to describe it, and can rely on proven fixes from people in the same situation. Hell, it's nice just to know that others are in a similar predicament and make relatable memes about it.