Thank you for the detailed reply. I have very shallow experience with some of what you said above, and the way you explained it makes the 'stuck' feeling make m

Thank you for the detailed reply. I have very shallow experience with some of what you said above, and the way you explained it makes the 'stuck' feeling make more sense. I've treated it, in the past, as "you've gotten over it before, you'll get over it again, try not to take it out on other people in the meantime", which is treating the symptoms not the cause. I'll re-read this a few times. Thank you.