In my experience people confuse "what the fuck else am I supposed to do?" with "strength" a lot in ways that are ... not as helpful as they think they are. See

In my experience people confuse "what the fuck else am I supposed to do?" with "strength" a lot in ways that are ... not as helpful as they think they are. See also, in the not-so-helpful department: "you're so lucky [to not be dead yet]" when luck would've not been being so close to death in the first place. I also don't really understand how it's supposed to be inspirational but I wish you the best and hope you make it through to the other side to the full recovery phase.