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I understood from a friend that you get more/better matches (as a man) if you pay? The men I know that are attractive (can attract a woman with relatively litt

• bradlys 2y ago
  Women’s sexuality also doesn’t really line up with how dating apps work. Almost every dating app out there now is based around Grindr’s original formula. Show a few photos and about three sentences of text. It’s completely catered to men’s sexuality. For men, personality is important but if you aren’t physically attractive - there’s almost nothing that will move that. The same cannot be said for women - as most women find most men physically unattractive (often including their own partners). Most of the women I know who didn’t meet their partner from a dating app usually say they wouldn’t match with their partner if they had seen their profile online. For women, in person interactions are incredibly important for determining overall sexual value. This is why many women will meet very physically attractive men in real life but then find the men very off putting in some way or another - leading them to feel disenchanted with the process. Online dating is inherently a male gays oriented game as it has been developed over the last decade.