Not really. The illusion of choice is designed to keep you sticky and anxious. It’s pretty obvious - when you match, you’re off the app. Most of these systems

Not really. The illusion of choice is designed to keep you sticky and anxious. It’s pretty obvious - when you match, you’re off the app. Most of these systems have to approached in a calculated way. Walking away is always the best technique. Men get boosted briefly when they pay. You attempt to match 8-10, and wait no more than a week then cancel the sub. If no luck, wait 4-6 weeks and wash, rinse, repeat. Most dudes are dumb. They match everyone and have no plan. Women look at the first few, then compulsively swipe for snarky entertainment. It works out to be a compulsive behavior most of the time. I’ve had success 3/3 times with doing this, including my late wife of 20 years. Probably spent less than 5 hours working the app each time.