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Makes sense to me. I have had a number of women friends. The ones who were truly good friends (as opposed to social acquaintances)? If I like them that much, th
by bradley13 2y ago
Makes sense to me. I have had a number of women friends. The ones who were truly good friends (as opposed to social acquaintances)? If I like them that much, then I could also see the potential of a romantic relationship with them.
That said, I find it odd that the study found guys overestimated the woman's interest. That seems like wishful thinking. I always found it pretty clear whether or not the potential interest was returned. If it wasn't, it wasn't, and there's no sense messing up a nice friendship.
Taking a few steps back, to look at the big picture: It is pretty well established that - given the opportunity - men tend to be more promiscuous than women. Turned around: women tend to be more selective than men, and if they are not, it can lead to (or is tied to existing) mental health problems. For example, one NIH study shows "a strong association between number of sex partners and later substance disorder, especially for women".
- beardyw 2y ago> That seems like wishful thinking I think it is more of an ego thing.
- Two4 2y agoYou might be making the classic correlation-causation mistake, in that promiscuity causes mental health issues and substance abuse; it may very well be that both the sex and the drugs are symptoms of underlying psychological or psychiatric issues, and I can believe that in a society that judges them harder for it, women might be impacted worse.