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I would probably try talking to my parents again if they actually gave me an apology for something they did and left it at a straight owning of their error. In
by NateEag 2y ago
I would probably try talking to my parents again if they actually gave me an apology for something they did and left it at a straight owning of their error.
In my family of origin apologies usually started by owning something the apologizer did, but invariably moved on to a "but" that made the recipient the butt of the apology.
- smeej 2y agoThis is the reason I have a relationship with my mom and not my dad. She did eventually try to understand why she thought the things she did were OK at the time she did them (and that's actually been helpful for me to understand over time), but she began by apologizing and saying anything that affected me the way it did was wrong for her to do, even if she didn't realize it at the time.