Without expectations. They can sense those from far off. The trick to results is do it all the time, not just when you need something. Comment on the weather.

Without expectations. They can sense those from far off. The trick to results is do it all the time, not just when you need something. Comment on the weather. Say something they're wearing is nice or ask them about something unusual. Don't do it because "that one's hot." Be nice. Curious. A few ... Years of that and you'll be comfortable enough to chat casually in every situation, and you'll begin to notice you have good repor with multiple female acquaintances. Seriously, take your time and be persistent. Women will "IOI" you when they're ready to encourage you. That's "indicator of interest", like they make casual physical contact, they always seem to be "off to the side" from you (they're shy too.) even if not directly making eye contact with you, you might begin to tell they're waiting for you to talk to them (since you're doing that now...)