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Then it sounds like that's an obligation you do want to do, and will go to. But later, if you change your mind... then don't go.
by spicyusername 2y ago
Then it sounds like that's an obligation you do want to do, and will go to.
But later, if you change your mind... then don't go.
- beart 2y agoI changed my kids diapers, if I didn't they would smell and get a rash. Having a good reason to do something isn't the same thing as wanting to do it for purely pleasurable reasons. But that's the whole point isn't it? Approaching things as, "if you don't want to do it, then don't" can lead to a whole lot of bad outcomes.