I cannot find the reference but there is a difference between games where you progress when you get better and games where you progress because your character g

I cannot find the reference but there is a difference between games where you progress when you get better and games where you progress because your character gets better. The first category in moderation is empowering, the seconds probably sets you ups for behavioral problems. My personal experience with ADHD seems to fit that narrative but it might be a case of reverse or spurious correlation. So if you do choose to get them a console, choose the games wisely. To be safe prefer games where the player needs to upskill to games where the player needs to grind so it's character gets better.