> But there seems to be very little or no mention of the benefits sexual freedom for men - the ability to say "I don't want to be a father, I don't want to risk

> But there seems to be very little or no mention of the benefits sexual freedom for men - the ability to say "I don't want to be a father, I don't want to risk being on the hook for child support right now" This is ideologically heretical, in the same way that paper abortions are ideologically heretical. As I have been told straight to my face, “Men should not ever have this kind of freedom, as it oppresses women and is literal misogyny.” I am paraphrasing - in that second sentence - what several feminists once told me (about two decades ago) during a discussion on birth control. And from what I have seen since then, this is an extremely popular sentiment among feminists. To experience this yourself, just bring up any positive support for paper abortions for men - which mostly equalizes abortion rights between the genders in places where women can freely abort - and enjoy the anti-male gender bigotry and vitriolic hate being spewed at you.