> I think the GP means things like it's ok to leave a 4 year old throwing a temper tantrum with a baby sitter while heading out for date night. There isn't any

> I think the GP means things like it's ok to leave a 4 year old throwing a temper tantrum with a baby sitter while heading out for date night. There isn't anything about that that I disagree with, nor is there anything about that that suggests you are putting your children second. Indeed, quite the opposite, in fact.