I think I edited since you saw/replied, I added a bit about the environment. We can't control everything, but we can control how we react to it. He's a product

I think I edited since you saw/replied, I added a bit about the environment. We can't control everything, but we can control how we react to it. He's a product of his environment, parents, and choices. That's not to discount disadvantage. I get it. None of this is final or complete, it's a fucking movie metaphor