That's a very good thing. The one that struck a cord the most with me was #20. I can't emphasize just how important this is. I learned a lot from them, but I wa

That's a very good thing. The one that struck a cord the most with me was #20. I can't emphasize just how important this is. I learned a lot from them, but I wasted a number of years in my 20's on trying to fix relationships that were bad because I thought "if I just put in more effort, problems X, Y and Z affecting my significant other will be solved and everything will be better." That's only true if the other person is working toward a common goal with you, and the same thing goes for friendships as well. Do not try to be the person who solves people's problems; I know that I got burned in doing so. FWIW, I just turned 30 earlier this month.