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Whistle-blowing is hard to distinguish from complaining about others and deflecting blame. These are staples of the narcissist's playbook. If you sound like a
by recursive 2y ago
Whistle-blowing is hard to distinguish from complaining about others and deflecting blame. These are staples of the narcissist's playbook. If you sound like a narcissist, people quite reasonably might suspect you of being one.
My take is this. If you need to give someone some bad or unsavory news, ease into it gently. Start with the gentlest form of the information. Have documentation and receipts to back up all your allegations. But don't reveal them unless questioned repeatedly.
- WarOnPrivacy 2y ago> Whistle-blowing is hard to distinguish from complaining about others and deflecting blame. I suggest examining the whistleblower's evidence.
- recursive 2y agoSure. That's why I say this. > Have documentation and receipts to back up all your allegations But you won't be dealing exclusively with reasonable people like you and me.