Not everything is a societal expectation. I have friends that have had kids in their 40s, and they are great fathers so it’s certainly possible, but at some poi

Not everything is a societal expectation. I have friends that have had kids in their 40s, and they are great fathers so it’s certainly possible, but at some point age is a hard reality. If you choose to have kids, you might want to be able to play sports with them or go on a hike, and there are limits to human endurance as we age. If you want to have grandkids, there are certain realities that you can work out with basic math. 30 is not even close to being too old, but it should be a time to consider sorting things out if you want kids or not.