It's not fun either to have waitstaff hounding you with fake smiles all the time, pretty exhausting to be repeating "no, not right now, thank you" every 5 minut

It's not fun either to have waitstaff hounding you with fake smiles all the time, pretty exhausting to be repeating "no, not right now, thank you" every 5 minutes when they come to ask if there's anything else. Worse, in a lot of places it feels they just need you to hurry up, more tables served, more tips. I don't feel I get "good service" in most places in the USA, I get waitstaff interrupting my table all the time to check if we want to order more, it's quite grating. I just need waitstaff that are attentive when I'm looking for them to order, not to be pushed into ordering or rushing me out.