You're supposed to be generous in interpreting other's statements even[1] when you think they're wrong. This is a great opportunity to "converse curiously"[2]

You're supposed to be generous in interpreting other's statements even[1] when you think they're wrong. This is a great opportunity to "converse curiously"[2] instead. 1. especially 2. https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html