I would love to put ECC in my Desktop computers, however its more expensive (ok), is not officially supported on most Desktop Motherboards (and in reality does

I would love to put ECC in my Desktop computers, however its more expensive (ok), is not officially supported on most Desktop Motherboards (and in reality does not work in "ECC-Mode" on the majority of them) and finally: ECC Ram available to purchase is painfully slow, in both bandwidth (:/) and latency (://)