Yes that sums up the actual priorities. Day care first, obedience and indoctrination second, learning anything last. Montessori maybe a good option, but expens

Yes that sums up the actual priorities. Day care first, obedience and indoctrination second, learning anything last. Montessori maybe a good option, but expensive and many schools have long waiting lists. I understand homeschooling doesn’t work economically for a lot of families. It did for us. We more or less unschooled without a specific curriculum — homeschooling doesn’t have to mean imitating what goes on in schools. Read John Holt and Ivan Illich for inspiration.