I still find it hilarious that people see a car with a design fault that is built into the brand which causes a lot of extra accidents, and blame the brand, but

I still find it hilarious that people see a car with a design fault that is built into the brand which causes a lot of extra accidents, and blame the brand, but they see yet another marriage in trouble and blame the participants instead of the institution itself or perhaps the environment the institution is struggling to stay viable in