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You are displaying signs of narcissism. Other guys don't care how tall and skinny you are and are not jealous of you. You seem technically competent and will
by sfmz 2y ago
You are displaying signs of narcissism. Other guys don't care how tall and skinny you are and are not jealous of you.
You seem technically competent and will likely succeed in SF or elsewhere.
Getting hired right-now in tech is reportedly difficult for most university grads, so you, without a degree, will be competing against people with a degree, which is obviously a disadvantage.
- 343throwaway432 2y agoI looked for signs of narcissism and I check some of the boxes. I will see a therapist for this. Thank you.
- gfourfour 2y agoIt’s pretty normal to have some narcissistic inclinations as a 19 year old, but it’s important to recognize that it’s fundamentally from a place of insecurity and excessive worry about how others perceive you. A good therapist could be helpful.
- pizzafeelsright 2y agoTry this. Not a therapist but some self reflection. I'm above average in height. I'm stronger than most. I'm very bright. I hold strong opinions. I speak about them in the real world very rarely because nobody cares about "you" and they care about what you offer. You don't care about your gym owner, his financial pain, his lack of business sense. You just want what you can get as cheap as possible. That's the market. That's life. Ask yourself: what do I bring to this relationship, this encounter, this moment? What should you do? Think about the 91 year old self. What are you going to do for him? He'll eventually resent you if you don't make decisions for him. He won't care if you failed. He'll care only if you made choices for the you now or the you later.