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I don't think they meant it in a negative way. The last line makes me think they mean it in a sort of self-reflective butterfly effect way. Similar to how anyo
by dotnet00 2y ago
I don't think they meant it in a negative way. The last line makes me think they mean it in a sort of self-reflective butterfly effect way.
Similar to how anyone might reflect on how the death of a relative or friend ultimately led them to being the person they are now in some way.
- otteromkram 2y ago[flagged]
- dotnet00 2y agoMy point is that text doesn't necessarily convey how they meant it. Their experience of the advisor's passing was indirect, so it isn't all that crazy that what stands out to them is how it affected their SO and the obvious effect it'd have had on the advisor's family.
- Faaak 2y agoWhy are you being so dramatic? Life is short, let it go
- willis936 2y agoThat's because I'm me and not anyone else. It was pretty traumatic for my SO and everyone else around the PI. The PI insisted on going into work and continuing on like nothing changed even as they were mentally deteriorating. If I don't include details about the tragedy it might be because I don't want to bring that energy to my comment and not because I somehow was oblivious to their significance.
- Gibbon1 2y agoThere was nothing at all wrong with your comment.
- junon 2y agoDetailing the impact a death has on the surrounding family and person's work as a personal account is fine. Your criticism is what's weird here.