I wouldn't make too many assumptions about someone who's cheating. Sex doesn't have to come with love: You can want to spend your life with someone and still de

I wouldn't make too many assumptions about someone who's cheating. Sex doesn't have to come with love: You can want to spend your life with someone and still desire sex outside of the marriage. As a married dad, a few years I suspected that a married mother, at the bus stop, was feeling me out for an affair. I was both flattered and terrified. A year later she and her husband initiated divorce. The thing is, if my wife and I were different kinds of people, jumping into an affair like that would be totally fine. We aren't, but I don't judge people who do. (If you're religious, think of concepts like Free Will and Non-Judgement.) (It's one of the reasons why I never went back to Burning Man, I was really creeped out when an old, married couple propositioned me and a girl I was hitting on for an orgy.)