Empathising with others and yourself isn't mutually exclusive. What's hard to grasp with that? > I empathise with myself first and will use what ever word feel

Empathising with others and yourself isn't mutually exclusive. What's hard to grasp with that? > I empathise with myself first and will use what ever word feels right in the situation And you're doing the same right now. Isn't your use of the word 'selfish' in the thread 'hurtful', and therefore not empathetic to me? By chiding me aren't you empathising with yourself more, and wishing that I would defer to your feelings instead of my own? The difference between you and I is I don't claim that a virtue is supreme and then immediately enact its opposite, which is really what makes this drive for 'inclusive language' and 'empathy' so repugnant to me.