Kids who are not part of the cool in-group getting drunk and doing coke after school are the ones who read more and study more and become successful. Data poin

Kids who are not part of the cool in-group getting drunk and doing coke after school are the ones who read more and study more and become successful. Data point: everyone in my HS's class of 1200 who was "cool" is now more or less a bagger in a grocery store, or dead from drug overdose. Everyone who was ostracized and a "loser" is successful. Do you want your kids to have a happy high school time (4 years) or a happy life being able to afford fun things(~60 years)?