Most problems are hard to "solve" because we entertain the delusion of solutions that don't exist — solutions which tie everything together with a nice bow and

Most problems are hard to "solve" because we entertain the delusion of solutions that don't exist — solutions which tie everything together with a nice bow and require no discomfort or negative emotions of any kind. Alex Hormozi says "the life you want is on the other side of a few hard conversations." I would channel that to say, "the solution you're looking for is on the other side of a few uncomfortable feelings." And usually, it's just the fear of the feelings, not the feelings themselves.