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for korea at least: - culture that prioritizes "status" heavily. this manifests as a consumerist/materialist society. everybody wanting designer clothes, liv
by ookblah 2y ago
for korea at least:
- culture that prioritizes "status" heavily. this manifests as a consumerist/materialist society. everybody wanting designer clothes, live in a nice apt complex, go to the best colleges, drive a nice car, kids go to the best schools and after school programs, etc. this is present elsewhere but it's amped up to another level here.
- housing prices are crazy. huge increases over the last decade (and it was already running hot before that). failed gov't policy and covid pushed this to the extreme. at one point you needed something like 60% down (purpose was to reduce speculation) but all this did was empower the cash buyers to snatch up everything. salaries are not keeping pace at all.
- women feeling more empowered in the work place, not having to follow the typical path of getting married and stay at home and take care of your kids.
basically all the pressure of even making it here WITHOUT kids... OFC nobody is going to prioritize it. people have had enough.
- StefanBatory 2y agoWouldn't military service be a factor too? It's 2 years and only for males.
- petre 2y agoOne could postpone it for a few years but who knows. Korean society is highly paternalistic and there's a lot of pressure on women. A novel by Kim Jiyeong called Born 1982 goes into details. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kim_Ji-young,_Born_1982 https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kim_Ji-young,_Born_1982
- StefanBatory 2y agoI do still wonder how much military service plays into this. I imagine a strong ressentment from men towards woman for that; and the hierarchical structure endured there and abuse can't help too.